5.) Go back to chasing your life goals and dreams
Go back to your life goals prior to the relationship and pick up where you left off. Do you have dreams for yourself? Do you see yourself where you need to be now? Are their goals or dreams still on your bucket list? Now would be an excellent time to readjust your focus on something that will benefit you in the long run. Write down your goals and come up with a strategy to execute them. Take the necessary steps to get to where you want to go next in life. Remember, you are important and deserve to be happy at whatever it is you chose to do. Whatever that is, just make sure you put yourself first this time. Go after your goals and dreams.
6.) Decide Enough is enough
Decide when enough is enough. Come to a point where you are ready to move on to take the next step to make a change in your life. There comes a point when you are tired of being tired, tired of crying, and tired of being depressed and miserable. The time will come when you will need to make a decision that you will not be broken inside any longer. You will not be defeated anymore, nor will you feel sorry for yourself. One day you will decide it is time to move on. However, this day will not come if you do not make that decision for yourself and declare that you will no longer be defeated. You must at some point take the necessary steps on finding your way back to who you were before the breakup. It will not be easy, and yes it will take time, but it will be worth it. You will find yourself again,