I will be the first to admit that women are talkative beings. Some are shy, but for the most part all women like to talk. Unless I am in a bad mood, I can talk for hours. Therefore, it is easy for us to become naggers. We have all been nagged at some point either by our parents, friends or others we have come in contact with and we do not like it. Nobody likes being nagged, so women try not to nag the men in your lives to death. If you have something to say, say it. No need to unnecessarily drag things on. We need to learn to say what we mean and be clear.
Sit behind him, rub his back, and give him a massage. You should help release his tension, not add to it. We have all heard the verse, ” do to others what you want done unto you”. Well, take that to an intimate level. You can touch him the way you want to be touched and hold him the same way you want him to hold you. After work one day, sit him down and give him a foot massage. Feed him a few spoons throughout dinner if he does not mind it. Whisper sweet nothings in his ears like he does to you. Tell him how you feel just like you expect it from him. It is always left to the men to make women feel at ease, cherish them, and treat them like the queens they are. If we don’t return the favor and treat the men in our lives like the king they are, who will?
Love your man, cater to the king in him.
***I know, I am full of disclaimers today. Ladies, please don’t try this with some man you are not sure about. What I am supporting here is women treating men who are treating them like queens like kings. Some men are still manifesting in their foolishness and have yet to discover and embrace the king in them. The ones who have embraced the king in them will notice your kingly treatment and reciprocate.