3. Accept her for who she is.
Seek to know her innermost being and accept her in her many forms. Don’t criticize or try to change her, but kindly help her grow. Don’t expect her to lower her expectations. They may be high, but they are realistic. She will be erratically spontaneous, but she will plan for every imaginable outcome at the same time. She will be that balance of practical and so not practical at the same time. She will know sometimes exactly what she wants or doesn’t want, and sometimes she’ll be clueless and want you to make the call.
Roll with her. She will do the same for you.