4. Be open with her. If you want to be with her, be with her.
If you want to do something together, tell her. That doesn’t mean she’ll agree, but don’t be prideful is she doesn’t. Tell her how you’re feeling. Be assertive, and for the love of everything, don’t be passive-aggressive. She doesn’t have time for that. Don’t be overly cautious. She’s not a porcelain doll and relationships need to learn to bend without breaking. She needs transparency from you.
So if you want to keep her in your life, at least to explore this thing further, ask yourself:
Is growth my priority? If not, can I make it so? (If yes…)
Am I willing to work on that physical and emotional connection? (If yes…)
Do I like who she really is, not who I think she is or want her to be? (If yes…)
Then tell her.