Misunderstandings about MEN

We listen, we listen more than women believe – A lot of us simply don’t like detailed things, we want things direct, straight to the point. Ever seen a man get frustrated because they can not put together a product they bought that needs gathering? Ever seen a woman with the same product patiently putting it together? maybe? If your answer is no, well i have. The difference is the instructions. The woman will patiently read the instructions while many modern men won’t. We feel like we have an idea of how to do it and we are gonna do it right without anyone’s help and when we mess up, we get frustrated and possibly go to the instructions. That’s a man for you not all, but many including me. The same concept applies to listening. Women are talkers and are detailed and we like things straight to the point, overtime this becomes a bad mix. We listen, but we listen sometimes to give you a response (because we believe we know what you’re going to say or the point you’re making) in those cases we’re listening, but not focused, we fish for keywords to get your point. We skim through. And really to be honest we do have selective hearing. A husband will hear the part where his wife say “do you want to have sex?” in the middle of her nagging and him ignoring.

Pierre Alex Jeanty is regular guy who sees things different from the majority. He is the founder of Gentlemenhood. A full time blogger, Author, social media specialist, health nut, Certified Life Coach and most importantly a disciple of Christ. Born in Port-au-Prince, Haiti now Alex resides in Lehigh Acres, Florida where he focuses on making a difference in this world.

This article has 3 comments

  1. Suzana Salieva

    could you speak about addictions,obssessions and vulnarabilities.
    I ve many patiens abused on revenge for not getting attention or not accepting a date.There re many sociopaths,craving from missunderstanding.Who doesnt know they re on a wrong direction still trying to go further.

    Thank you for educating and informing the yought about
    competetive arrogance,insisting on being the best,forced abuse,anger,jelousy, losing control,distolerance ,anxiety,
    and how to prevent it how to grow communication skills,and acceptance.

  2. Nevena

    Thank you…

  3. tayme

    I totally agree with u. U got everything all right. Thank u for enlightening us about men.

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