4.) Its all for pleasure, just fun – many may disagree with this because society has redefined the purpose of sex using it as a product more than anything. However, soul ties exist. Every time you have sex with someone you are giving a part of yourself to them. Someone you’re most likely not going to marry. Someone once got a piece of scotch tape and told me see it like this.They kept putting the tape on different people and taking it off. Overtime the tape couldn’t stick because the value died. It lost its purpose. I am not saying if you have sex you are not valuable, but I’m saying sex can be more meaningful. Soul ties exist. That’s why some people are holding on to some people who treat them worst than dogs. Many think it’s love when it’s really an emotional attachments caused by a sexual connection. It’s wise to guard yourself against that, and only have soul ties with your soul mate. Sex is powerful, and it’s best if you use it right.
Committing (and by committing for me it means marriage) before you start sleeping around is wise. Commitment may mean just a good relationship to you, no judgement here. It’s hard to not desire sex. It’s hard to not go to that person who always makes you feel good. It’s’s hard, it’s hard, it’s hard, especially in a world where sex is really everything. Everyone is talking about it and doing it, but one thing I’ve learned is part of maturity means learning to delay pleasure and staying disciplined. Saving sex until you are committed will save so much pain, dissapointement, and confusion. Challenge yourself in that area and see. I’ve fallen for a woman just because of good sex before thinking I was in love. It wasn’t until I was out of the relationship and started a spiritual journey that I noticed all we had in common was sex. It’s all we used to solve everything, and the only interaction we had. There’s more to it. You deserve to give this beautiful gift God gave us to the one God chose for you. You deserve a relationship without clouded judgement; a love that isn’t fueled by false emotions/lust and so forth.