How to Properly Slide into Her DM

2.) Know enough about who you are approaching

Don’t be a stalker, but don’t just approach a random woman you’ve been following for 5 seconds, and dive into her inbox professing your interest. As I said, you need your “why” to be a good one. How can you have a good reason “why” that proves that you’re not being shallow when you don’t have enough hint about the person. You have to get a clue my friend. Research her profile, find her likes and dislikes, common things she does, type of people she hangs out with, etc. Social media profiles tell us more about people than we think. Everyone often says, ‘Well, people only present a life online.’ Yes, they do, however even if they are lying, it’s rooted in who they are. You can identify someone’s sense of humor, views, aspirations, and many other things through the personal information they share online. It may not be to entirety, but there’s room for reliable hints.


3.) Stay away from the typical messages

The “Hey beautiful, I’d like to know you,” and other typical and sometimes corny lines, aren’t going to help you get a response. Quite often, many women see those types of messages online, especially beautiful women who trigger thirsty men’s attention. Many guys will try to prove that they are different from other men when they talk to a woman online, but tend to use the most common approaches in the book. Be authentic, be creative, be you. A simple message about why you’re approaching her can be a good pitch, as long it’s genuine. Maybe include something about HER that you recognize, that might not be easily detected. Take some educated guesses and apologize if you’re wrong. Be the different man you are trying to be, from the start.


Pierre Alex Jeanty is regular guy who sees things different from the majority. He is the founder of Gentlemenhood. A full time blogger, Author, social media specialist, health nut, Certified Life Coach and most importantly a disciple of Christ. Born in Port-au-Prince, Haiti now Alex resides in Lehigh Acres, Florida where he focuses on making a difference in this world.

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