Let’s just take a minute to understand what was just said. First you’ve got it wrong a few times and lastly stated you just want to get it right with someone. On the surface nothing sounds wrong with that. I mean most of you reading may have been like “YES” someone gets it. However, allow me to draw your attention to something. Oftentimes people get their heartbroken and take their time to heal, that time is different for all. After that it’s like okay I will never give up on love so the next move is to position yourself to be “back on the market”.
Let’s slow it up though. How often between those times do we step back and evaluate ourselves, our wants, desires and even fears because the truth is that sometimes those things change? I find it very beneficial to do self evaluation because when the same thing keeps happening due to the same actions then that’s worth taking some time to consider. After you’ve given so much of yourself to another and things end up failing it’s no secret that it can create a measure of anxiety to even the strongest person. That anxiety stems from not wanting to feel that gut wrenching pain of watching someone you care about walk away or in other cases walking away from someone you know is wonderful but feel just isn’t for you. So what is it? What do you want now that you’ve experienced one relationship and it failed? What do you truly desire?