What to Consider Before Your Next Relationship

Let’s just take a minute to understand what was just said. First you’ve got it wrong a few times and lastly stated you just want to get it right with someone. On the surface nothing sounds wrong with that. I mean most of you reading may have been like “YES” someone gets it. However, allow me to draw your attention to something. Oftentimes people get their heartbroken and take their time to heal, that time is different for all. After that it’s like okay I will never give up on love so the next move is to position yourself to be “back on the market”.

Let’s slow it up though. How often between those times do we step back and evaluate ourselves, our wants, desires and even fears because the truth is that sometimes those things change? I find it very beneficial to do self evaluation because when the same thing keeps happening due to the same actions then that’s worth taking some time to consider. After you’ve given so much of yourself to another and things end up failing it’s no secret that it can create a measure of anxiety to even the strongest person. That anxiety stems from not wanting to feel that gut wrenching pain of watching someone you care about walk away or in other cases walking away from someone you know is wonderful but feel just isn’t for you. So what is it? What do you want now that you’ve experienced one relationship and it failed? What do you truly desire?

Hello and welcome to a glimpse into my world. I am Curtrice Williams. A southern woman born and raised in Alabama. I am 29 years old, and a mother to a wonderful 6 year old son. I am a writer committed to walking in my God given purpose. I currently work for the founder of Gentlemenhood, Pierre Alex Jeanty, as his assistant and as the editor of this website. Along with that I am the Co-Founder and face behind Gentlewomenhood. I'm a senior at the University of Alabama at Birmingham majoring in Health Education with a special concentration in Human Services. I am also the executive assistant for the fashion brand "Splashed By DKG". Motherhood, writing, education, and fashion are motivating aspects of my life, I view it all as an outlet to touch others. Gentlewomenhood is something I place a lot of my heart into, it is a beautiful way of expression that can educate, motivate, and uplift others in ways only they can truly express. It takes more than one person to make a difference in this world, but by using our gifts we can together be the change we would like to see in this world. Join me into a movement of education, clarity, inspiration, motivation, and uplifting! You may follow my handles: Instagram & Twitter @gentlewomenhood. Email: gent.assistant@gmail.com. The fashion page that I am connected to is @splashedbydkg on Instagram & Twitter, and Splashed by DKG on Facebook; the official website is www.splashedbydkg.com.

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