The answers should start with you. It should revolve around your lessons learned and your goals for your life. If you’re a spiritual person it should revolve around aligning yourself with God’s will for your life, keeping in mind that His will won’t go against His word. So, before you decide to give another relationship a try it really benefits you to spend some time with yourself. Take note of your flaws, your highs and lows, your likes and dislikes and not just what they are but why you feel that way. If you can’t understand yourself then how can you expect a significant other to understand you and one of the biggest problems in relationships is a lack of communication and understanding.
So often we don’t even understand ourselves, we don’t know exactly what we want, we don’t consider what we actually need yet we are willing to invite another living, breathing, feeling human being closely into our lives and move “forward” with them. When it’s put like that it’s a bit disturbing huh? So if you’re single right now and someone was very interested in getting to know you before you’ve taken some time to get to know yourself post lessons and time, how could you honestly and accurately express to them what you want? The reality is that you truly can’t but so often people just say cliché responses and get swept away at the feeling of something new, someone new.