How to Properly Slide into Her DM

Yes, this is seriously a blog post. How to seriously approach a woman via DM about a serious connection. As silly as it sounds, social media etiquette is a necessity in this time that we are living in. But, I am not here to talk about the fullness of that. I am here to help the fellas out with a better to approach to women online; how to approach properly and be more productive. Now when I say more productive, I am not a guru that is here to teach you how to say keywords to “lure in a woman,” or anything like that. It’s a little foolish to think women can just be categorized into pick-up lines. I am just sharing my insights, because I think enough men who are actually looking for a woman have been left on “seen” or “read” with no reply, long enough.


1.) Figure out your “why?”

I am not kidding, you need a good reason why. Now, just any reason isn’t a good reason, the reason must have an end goal. Hooking up is not an end goal, it’s a foolish goal. There are countless men online who see a woman and just because she looks good, Why do you feel like she might me be the right fit in your life, merely because she is fit?  Ask yourself, why do I even want to contact this woman? What is it about her besides her looks, that pulls me in? What is attractive to me about her online presentation? This is something people looking for partners anywhere should do, before they even approach a person. In this case, if your reason is a good one, it’ll be harder to put your foot in your mouth when it does lead to a conversation. You need to set a good foundation.


Pierre Alex Jeanty is regular guy who sees things different from the majority. He is the founder of Gentlemenhood. A full time blogger, Author, social media specialist, health nut, Certified Life Coach and most importantly a disciple of Christ. Born in Port-au-Prince, Haiti now Alex resides in Lehigh Acres, Florida where he focuses on making a difference in this world.

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