5 Reasons Men Avoid Being Friends With Women

In many cases, if a man can’t be a friend to a woman he certainly can’t be anything romantic. For me, friendship is the foundation of a great relationship and love. Far too often people jump from relationship to relationship seeking a feeling, but they are truly operating out of lust. There is a lot that goes into a relationship, but the foundation has to be friendship. However, today I want to address the reason why men may not desire to be your friend.

I do realize some of the reasons I am about to share may seem judgmental or unfair; however, some of them will be common sense.

1. Questionable past with men. Many men are quick to judge women for their past, because secretly men like the fun girls. However, when he is ready to settle down he wants nothing to do with the woman who drinks, clubs, or anything else that reminds him of his player past. However, this doesn’t mean you should lie about your past, because the right man will understand and love you regardless.

Pierre Alex Jeanty is regular guy who sees things different from the majority. He is the founder of Gentlemenhood. A full time blogger, Author, social media specialist, health nut, Certified Life Coach and most importantly a disciple of Christ. Born in Port-au-Prince, Haiti now Alex resides in Lehigh Acres, Florida where he focuses on making a difference in this world.

This article has 3 comments

  1. Takirah Jones

    Good stuff sir! Definitely something to adhere to. Keep up the good work! GOD BLESS!!

  2. Glendon j walker

    I was hurt numerous times in the past by a girl trying to be a mr nice guy but I learned my lesson, from my mother passed away to be with her LORD, things changed in her only sons life not to go down that path again. GOD knows the type of woman I want, but he won’t be able to find, there is aids and I don’t want to pick upon klap from them, I have watched a lot of cheaters caught on tape and other talk shows and have learned from them. The LORD said in his word it is better to be single but if one wish to marry let him marry, and he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing, but it’s not all of them good ither. So I rest my case.

  3. Glendon walker

    This is my 2nd comment, to let you all men and women know from a Christian point of view put your trust in the LORD always in all his ways acknowledge him and he shall direct thy path. You see, you have to put GOD in all things first in this life, if you cannot do that you are doomed for failour. When it comes on to relationship’s or marriage’s if GOD is not involve, it is doomed for failoure, you have to put the LORD first in everything, or elce it’s doomed for failoure. Christian marriages have it’s ups and downs too but the couple can always call upon there Heavenly Father and he will be there to solve there problems, by seeking counseling by an ordained pastor of the LORD, from the holy scriptures, praying and going on a long or short fastings. You know why a lot of seniors marriage last, back then they find good mates, that is willing to settle down, not like today, no matter what greight amount of finances they have it’s doomed for failoure. So take care and let the good LORD take of you all.

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