Find Your Happiness

3) Let go of everything that is holding you where you are now:

• This is a tough one. For me, it was deleting all mainstream music off my computer. I am not saying there is something wrong with popular music, it simply was one of the things holding me back and it had to go if I wanted to reach my desired level of happiness. Every now and again I switched the station and listen to other kinds of music besides Gospel, but I am in a better place now where it no longer affect me in a negative way. A lot of times we listen to musics to relieve us from whatever problem we are facing when in reality they make us feel worse at the end. With most songs having terrible lyrics, there are very few songs that I actually want to listen to. For you it could be something completely different. It is your responsibility to evaluate your life every so often and figure out what is holding you from moving forward to a better place and whatever it is, make the choice to let it go.  I also used to get angry fairly quickly, but as soon as I learned that my happiness is important, I decided to make it so tough that not everything people do and say can burn it to the ground. My happiness is a priority and it is my job to keep it that way.