Many believe the world to be black and white with an answer of “yes” or “no” to every question. In this type of world, life is safe. There are cookie cutter houses on every block with white picket fences and beautifully grown flowers bordering every wrap-around porch. In this type of world, morals are not compromised and life is easier to understand.
Unfortunately, life is not this simple. Life has hues of bright lime green and baby blue. It has crimson and naranja orange, and sometimes even polka dots and zig-zags. Just as complicated as life is, humans are as well. Just as complicated as humans are, women are.
The first step in trying to “understand” what a woman is for dating or marriage reasons, is simply understanding that a woman does not fit inside an imaginary box with a list of everything that makes her a “woman”. Understanding that every woman has a past, a culture, experiences and beliefs that have helped shape her to be the woman she is, will help you understand that every woman has fine-tuned details to them individually that will always make them a tad bit different compared to every other woman.
Understanding that every woman is different than the next simply because life works this way, will help you understand that you will most likely encounter many woman that do not fit inside your box of what a woman should be. It is totally fine to not accept these women as dateable, as long as you understand this does not make them less of a woman. It is totally acceptable to have a list of what you think a woman should be, as long as you know a woman is far too complex to only be what you think she should be.
There is no universal “how to please a woman handbook”, because you cannot categorize every woman you meet into one of two categories. Many women have similarities when it comes to dating, such as wanting honesty and happiness, but at the core there may be many differences.
I don’t believe anyone can really say what a woman should be as a universal law of some sort, but I do believe treating each woman as an individual, will make dating slightly easier. Forget what you “knew” about women from your past relationship and start fresh with realizing you don’t know anything about the next woman.
A woman is everything.