Three Signs: Do they want me or nah?

Everyone wants love, but have you ever been in a situation where it seems like you might want to be with a person more than they want to be with you? It could be that they don’t want a relationship with you at all, but because you like them so much you fail to see the signs. It could end up being that the person you’re interested in doesn’t really know what they want, or have another person interested as well so they string you along during their “figuring it out” process. You may be left clueless as to where you truly stand. No matter what the situation is, it is pertinent that you figure out whether to stick it out or let it go. It is my opinion that if your doubt isn’t removed after a short period of time the answer is let it go. This may be easier said than done, so here are a few red flags that will help you see if a relationship is a go or a no.

The conversation is bland:

One thing about both men and women, when they really feel they have found someone they truly like, they really want to talk to them. The conversations are full of questions about likes and dislikes. You can talk for hours about your past, and what you want in the future. Just conversing back and forth makes you both happy, and you really can’t wait until the next time your phone rings and it’s them.  You can really talk for hours and not even notice how much time has passed. Conversations are even very exciting when you aren’t talking about much at all. You won’t be the only person showing interest here if there is chemistry, because simply having that person’s attention will make for a great conversation. So much can be gathered by verbal communication. If he/she just doesn’t seem interested in talking to you then chances are a serious relationship is a no.