In this generation more than ever, people struggle to find love. People are tired of meeting the misrepresented form of love, tired of being hopeful, tired of believing in love in it’s raw existence.
Why is that:
This is because some think love should come easily and be easy to maintain. The truth is, is that true love does come easily, however, it takes work, hard-work. Love isn’t a smooth ride, but the journey is worth it. Most of us in this age want real love, but some do not want the work that comes with love itself. We want great relationships, but are quick to quit during the storm. We don’t care to put effort into fixing anything that goes wrong in relationships, we simply try to replace a relationship, especially when the problem is us, we are quick to replace partners. It’s obvious we live in a microwave society nowadays – an impatient generation. We also do not know the meaning of hard-work. We are used to looking for other equations without solving the current problem. That mentality also affects our love-life.
1 – True love is considered old school:
Lovely gestures are considered “kissing butt”, we let our pride stop us from doing the things necessary. We don’t like expressing our love because we’re afraid of looking weak. Both males and females of this generation mistake being rude, sarcastic and emotionless for good qualities. Our fear of being walked on causes us to operate like robots looking for a real experience, instead of human-beings open to real experiences. Even good morals and values became a thing of the past. Therefore, what use to be right and loving becomes stupidity and opinions.