3 – We fall in love with potential not reality:
We love the potentials in our partner, but won’t endure through their mistakes and shortcomings. The honeymoon stage is all we consider love. To us the honeymoon stage defines the relationship and we expect things to improve or at least remain the same. From the experiences in the honeymoon stage, dawn future expectations for our partner and relationship. Unfortunately humans change, they face rough times, they fall short of their potentials, and the relationship may have rough seasons. Yet many of us never see beyond the honeymoon stage, when its done with, so are we.