Ideologies about marriage you shouldn’t believe in.

5.) Without a big beautiful wedding, you’re off to the wrong start. 

If you do not have a solid savings account, anything saved up for retirement, and aren’t comfortably paying your bills, that is not good practice. Too many people actually spend a lot of money on their wedding then they have so many financial issues that it leads some to divorce. Do what you can, don’t have an expensive wedding and a cheap marriage.