4.) Similar foundation
Foundation is important, you both have to be on the same page at your core. We both are old souls who aren’t only devoted Christians but we believe in the old school ways which truthfully is God’s way but let’s call it old school since it’s more accepted under that title. She believes in modesty and sees the beauty of it. She understands submission in the proper context, she believes in saving herself before marriage. She believes grace and forgiveness will hold any relationship and most importantly she believed in denying herself of the false ways and extending the love of God as often as possible. She believes in cooking for a man, the list goes on. To the modern woman this is a brainwashed woman to a man like me it’s beautiful. Her submission allows me to serve her more, it allows me to be the man and do what’s necessary to protect her in all aspect. Her modesty makes me respect her more. Her standing firm in her vow to stay pure before marriage allowed me to love her without being physical, making sure the love is pure not influenced by what she can do to me. All those things are beautiful to me because in my foundation are those beliefs. Quite often people get in a relationship with someone who let’s say don’t see the importance of practicing celibacy yet they build a relationship and now it becomes an issue when the high at the beginning of the relationship wears off.