How I knew she was “The One”

If you are not a fan of Gentlemenhood who keeps up with my page on Instagram and Facebook consistently this will be new news to you. I am engaged. I believe I found the one. Many of the supporters of this brand were happy for me and to some it validates my work more. In many eyes I became a little bit more credible than many of the people who say good things about relationships yet doesn’t apply them. One of the questions I get often since is, “How did you know she was the one?” Although there’s not a secret trick to this or a formula to follow to find the one I do believe sharing my experience can help others evaluate and some even determine whether someone is for them or not. Here is how I evaluated whether or not she was right for me.

1.) A Solid Spiritual Connection

A spiritual connection is something that is serious to me and should be serious for many but not everyone is spiritual or care for anything that involves a higher being. Whatever your beliefs are, you need someone you see eye to eye at your core. I am a Christian who strives to die to my flesh daily and live for God daily, I am also one who is firm on doctrine and so forth. I believe Christ is the way and never will I steer away from that. I needed someone with the same belief. I was single for two years prior to meeting my fiancé, she was the first one who was under the same doctrine as me and shares the same understanding spiritually. As a Christian I was only open to dating Christians only because I believe I can only be evenly yoked with a believer. To go more in depth I also believed that I can only be paired up with a Christian with the same doctrine and heading in the same direction. I never wanted to end up with someone who’s going a different route overall from me spiritually. I needed someone to be on one accord with. My fiancé passed that test.

Pierre Alex Jeanty is regular guy who sees things different from the majority. He is the founder of Gentlemenhood. A full time blogger, Author, social media specialist, health nut, Certified Life Coach and most importantly a disciple of Christ. Born in Port-au-Prince, Haiti now Alex resides in Lehigh Acres, Florida where he focuses on making a difference in this world.

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