If you are not a fan of Gentlemenhood who keeps up with my page on Instagram and Facebook consistently this will be new news to you. I am engaged. I believe I found the one. Many of the supporters of this brand were happy for me and to some it validates my work more. In many eyes I became a little bit more credible than many of the people who say good things about relationships yet doesn’t apply them. One of the questions I get often since is, “How did you know she was the one?” Although there’s not a secret trick to this or a formula to follow to find the one I do believe sharing my experience can help others evaluate and some even determine whether someone is for them or not. Here is how I evaluated whether or not she was right for me.
1.) A Solid Spiritual Connection
A spiritual connection is something that is serious to me and should be serious for many but not everyone is spiritual or care for anything that involves a higher being. Whatever your beliefs are, you need someone you see eye to eye at your core. I am a Christian who strives to die to my flesh daily and live for God daily, I am also one who is firm on doctrine and so forth. I believe Christ is the way and never will I steer away from that. I needed someone with the same belief. I was single for two years prior to meeting my fiancé, she was the first one who was under the same doctrine as me and shares the same understanding spiritually. As a Christian I was only open to dating Christians only because I believe I can only be evenly yoked with a believer. To go more in depth I also believed that I can only be paired up with a Christian with the same doctrine and heading in the same direction. I never wanted to end up with someone who’s going a different route overall from me spiritually. I needed someone to be on one accord with. My fiancé passed that test.