Why Sex Shouldn’t Come Before Commitment
2.) Someone who is as freaky as me is a good match – What I think our generation doesn’t understand the most is that sex isn’t everything, and being a freak isn’t anything special. Anyone can become a freak to someone they are attracted to. Both women and men are freaks. It just takes the right bond. Being freaky is about having very little to no boundaries when it comes to doing whatever it takes to please the person you love. The problem is we’re doing all that for people we think we love. Giving everyone else your future wife or husband’s surprise away. The person you marry should be the one bringing out the real freak in you. Who better to experiment and do all the crazy things with than the person who will be yours till death comes between you both.
This is beautiful, I never thought about sex in this manner, I’m reconsidering my steps. You have blessed me, thank you!
Thank you for your words! You really opened my eyes. I waited for a long time but this year on my birthday I gave it away. I feel horrible about it. I know I can’t take it back but I know I am forgiven and that it’s too late for me!
Awesome. Thank you for reading and keep your head up. You can always start the Journey of celibacy. You are not any less.
WOW!!! This is beautifully written and explained. Many thanks to you.
Thank you for reading Tary.
Sex before marriage is very deep issue has many ethical,moral,material and pshycic social faces.
1.Developin willpower,practising releasing of illusional desires,we believe is passion
starts with understanding the things..what is passion,what is love and what is emotion and what is condition and what is situation..than its called self knowing which is esteem,and attraction on successful one.
2.Losing your self happens on our weekness.Most of the times making love is actually war between genders,between men etc.I mean most of the time what we want and we get has nothing to do with the real main thing we desire..falls apart very far from it bcz of various reasons like collective misleading.
3.Practising Yoga .having a stable income and friends family circle help indivudual to grow healthy binds he rarely has to cut as a piece of his soul.
thank you for sharing this and enlighting many generations disaccordance.
My landlord who happens to be a pastor told me the same thing after I broke up with my boyfriend. Andvi have to say he made a lot of sense, ans so do you. Thank you for this article I just met a guy who I’ve only been on a first date with and already we have talked about sex. I feel like I neede a reminder and this article came at the right time. Keep writing, you are saving lives with the written word. I salute you.
Thank you very much and i am glad you agree with this and find it helpful. Thank you for being a reader
its a great article and glad I found it. M in my mid 20s n my boyfriend is in his early 30s. We both have not involve physically yet as we are hindus and in hinduism its a big no no for pre marital sex.. I personaly think sex bfr mariage is not safe and that everyone should value themselves by not engaging in sexual activities. Just wait for the right time, everything wil fall into places
I agree. Well said.
What a wonderful piece, though i’ve got no lady at this time i’ll keep in mind for when I have. Thanks.
U r in a good position for this u know, sort of …Preparing for war in times of peace…
Beautiful insight & well executed article. Lust & Desires are not equal to Love. Love is more than just sexual needs.
This is so encouraging. I am a disciple of Christ as well and for a long time before really taking my walk with God seriously I didn’t value myself or the way I treated women. Viewing them as objects for my sexual pleasure. It took me years of heartbreaks, dissatisfaction and wasted time to realize the things you spoke about in the article. I am very encouraged my brotha and I’ll be buying your book. Keep being a light bro!
These words were a painful truth that I realized a little too late. I spent the better part of my young adult years confusing love with lust. At 28 enough is enough…
This is exactly how i feel..
This blog is so powerful. We need more men like you. I’ve recently been introduced to your website through Instagram, and I can’t wait until February to read your book. I pray you stay strong throughout your spiritual journey!
God is using you for this generation. ….. thank you for being genuine, open and sincere. I needed to hear this because I’m 45 and felt this way for the last couple of years, but didn’t act upon it until now. I’m saving myself for my husband, no more sex before marriage. ……
Wow, thank you. I appreciate you for writing this. It is just what I needed, I’m 19 a sophomore in college and still a virgin and the person I talk to respects that I am celibate. This reaffirmed everything I believe in so may God continue to bless you.
This is one of the basic fundamentals for Muslims ” marriage before sex”
Awesome piece! Keep on shining your Light on this world covered in Darkness. See you in Orlando this Thursday.
That’s why in Islam sex is forbidden before marriage, Islam valued marriage so the man and woman fulfill their needs through a serious bond where they have shared emotional responsibilities
Great piece and full of truth. Keep it up. Having a sex free relationship brings honour and the blessing of God into any relationship.
Mom is always right. I was swept away myself and now I am in a relationship with someone I have nothing in common with but the children we have. We are still together, but it’s so difficult to share your life with someone you don’t truly care about because there is still no interaction between us even though it seems that we are pretty close. I would advise anyone else this same thing: Don’t have sex!
I’m only 19 and I want to use this topic for a Communications speech in my college. I’m definitely a Christian but I was looking for something that wasn’t considered biased. Great peace! I’m glad a found it,.
Thank you for this encouraging and wonderful article. God is indeed using you to open the eyes of the lost generation to this world. The sex culture is huge but God’s power and domain is bigger than the world. Please pray for me that God’s holy love will remain in me and His Word will guide my footsteps. God bless you.