Today I decided to open the platform for you, our readers to give me input on “what you think is destroying relationships nowadays”. I was so impressed by the answers. Many of you had some strong reasons I never thought about. I learned a lot and It’s only right to blog about it.
Many of those answers were the usual, lack of maturity, loyalty, communication etc. These answers however had some great point I believe everyone needs read.
“We do go into relationship with the mindset that it’s a now thing. Let me enjoy the now moment, which isn’t bad, but why are you dating? We don’t care to date with purpose. With divorce rate being so high, marriage is mocked we don’t set goals towards it. We’re treating dating as a game”.
Many of us don’t know who we are, neither do we care to know ourselves. We would rather try to find happiness in things like relationships and in people like our partners. We are scared to face the person in the mirror. We hear “love yourself first” and think it’s just a quote rarely apply it”.