What destroys relationships the most nowadays.


“The key point she made that stands out in this is the fact that people get so caught up in the good everyone else is posting online about their life they become ashamed of the bad in theirs.  Seeking the wrong approval, chasing the wrong thing, the wrong person and so forth.  Bad influence is spreading like wildfire.  It seems good but isn’t wise”.


“Many males fail in this area.  They trade off someone who has 80% of what they need for someone who has 20%, because they were bored.  If you’re bored add some spice to your relationship.  It’s all up to you.  Its just like when I was a kid I would say I’m bored in my hometown during summer time.  I started traveling and noticed the boredom seem to follow me.  When I go other places I would end up bored and now missing home.  As I grew older I noticed boredom was just my choice, no matter where I went it was the same results – same with relationships.


“Everything that needs to be said is there.  Love is a friendship set on fire. That foundation sounds foolish now.  You like me, I like you let’s sleep together and start dating is how people operate now.  I don’t even know myself why take time knowing you is the how many subconsciously date – it’s sad”.

Pierre Alex Jeanty is regular guy who sees things different from the majority. He is the founder of Gentlemenhood. A full time blogger, Author, social media specialist, health nut, Certified Life Coach and most importantly a disciple of Christ. Born in Port-au-Prince, Haiti now Alex resides in Lehigh Acres, Florida where he focuses on making a difference in this world.

This article has 2 comments

  1. Just Tin

    For me the main reasons would be these.

    First off, communication. It’s horrible nowadays. When I was in a relationship we’d chat a lot over the phone. And this doesn’t get you close to them, but to your phone. It could also potentially ruin the real life chats as there’s not going to be much left to talk about.

    Then there’s insecurity and the also the feeling of entitlement, those two can kill any relationship, no matter how great.
    Insecurity speaks for itself, I suppose. The feeling of entitlement is just wrong nowadays. People tend to look for something or someone much better than who they’re with, just because they feel they deserve someone better. Even though they generally don’t even see what they’ve got. Mainly because they’re bored or get fooled by social media (as you mentioned).

    I really do think it’s a shame where relationships are headed. Most people don’t really understand the concept of love anymore nowadays.

    One thing though, people should talk more often, be more open and willing to actually engage in conversation with their other half. Communication is key in my opinion.

    Sorry about the long and probably not ”sense-making” comment!

    (Love your Twitter & Instagram btw! <3)

    • coldo

      Entitlement!!!’ve hit the nail on the head…social networks also to blame..agreed! !

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