What destroys relationships the most nowadays.


“Although this is part of lack of communication it needs to be address. Many relationships operate off text messages now, very little interaction. As she said ‘people are more bold and less expressive via text’, I’ve said many things In text I couldn’t say to any of my exes face.  Texts also doesn’t communicate emotions, so all the though talks get interpreted harsher and make more damage than we believe.  Texting is good, but unhealthy if it’s the main channel you and your partner connects through.


“Take it from someone who’s been married for 30 years (speaking of the follower who wrote this) we are a generation who want fast result and if we can’t get what we want, which is fast results we go crazy looking for it everywhere else.  We don’t have time to fix anything, replacing it is faster”.


-“Me, me, me mentality.  There is a me in team, but noticed it’s all backwards.  We want love , but hate being selfless when it’s the most important part of love.  This as long I’m fine and I get mine mentality is a single person way of thinking.  Either you stay single or change that mindset”.

Pierre Alex Jeanty is regular guy who sees things different from the majority. He is the founder of Gentlemenhood. A full time blogger, Author, social media specialist, health nut, Certified Life Coach and most importantly a disciple of Christ. Born in Port-au-Prince, Haiti now Alex resides in Lehigh Acres, Florida where he focuses on making a difference in this world.

This article has 2 comments

  1. Just Tin

    For me the main reasons would be these.

    First off, communication. It’s horrible nowadays. When I was in a relationship we’d chat a lot over the phone. And this doesn’t get you close to them, but to your phone. It could also potentially ruin the real life chats as there’s not going to be much left to talk about.

    Then there’s insecurity and the also the feeling of entitlement, those two can kill any relationship, no matter how great.
    Insecurity speaks for itself, I suppose. The feeling of entitlement is just wrong nowadays. People tend to look for something or someone much better than who they’re with, just because they feel they deserve someone better. Even though they generally don’t even see what they’ve got. Mainly because they’re bored or get fooled by social media (as you mentioned).

    I really do think it’s a shame where relationships are headed. Most people don’t really understand the concept of love anymore nowadays.

    One thing though, people should talk more often, be more open and willing to actually engage in conversation with their other half. Communication is key in my opinion.

    Sorry about the long and probably not ”sense-making” comment!

    (Love your Twitter & Instagram btw! <3)

    • coldo

      Entitlement!!!’ve hit the nail on the head…social networks also to blame..agreed! !

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